I've been doing more research into the opinion piece posted earlier and it doesn't seem to have much merit.
Here is a link with better research. http://www.parentingscience.com/science ... ining.html
At the end of the day, it just seems that it works well to let them lead.
At the moment we have so much nakey time, and I will offer the potty and she says no and runs off and pees next to it. I have gotten peed on at least 3x today. If she poops in her diap, she brings us a diap to be changed which is pretty darn cute.