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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads.  Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 7:20 pm |
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I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine. I know she was such a sweet dog, and that she was very much loved.
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mrsbadmouth
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 7:30 pm |
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kittee wrote: Bonnie has always been one of my favorite internet dogs. I am crying real tears up here, and I am feeling real anger, too. Thank you for posting those picture of her, I was glad to see her one more time. This is pretty much what you always worried would happen, and I can't believe it really did.
Also, I can't find you on FB, so I am assuming you are gone from there?
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kittee Yeah, I deactivated my facebook account about a month and a half ago. Thanks for the email and the links! I am trying really hard to keep the forked up thoughts out of my head. Like, it's really forking with me that Bonny is in the back yard where it's cold. Even though I know it's not her anymore. If it was spring or summer it wouldn't bother me so much. I think i'm gonna get one of those 'make your own stepping stone' kits and draw a Bee in the cement/plaster to put over her.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 7:31 pm |
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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kittee
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 8:10 pm |
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mrsbadmouth wrote: Thanks for the email and the links!
I am trying really hard to keep the forked up thoughts out of my head. Like, it's really forking with me that Bonny is in the back yard where it's cold. Even though I know it's not her anymore. If it was spring or summer it wouldn't bother me so much.
I think i'm gonna get one of those 'make your own stepping stone' kits and draw a Bee in the cement/plaster to put over her. i am rocking out to those links, as i type this. seriously go watch "this is not a test" over and over again. if anyone can help, it's kathleen hanna. i like the stepping stone idea, that sounds like a nice marker. plus, i really understand your thoughts too, i had a lot like that when we buried my friend amy. keep on, keep on livin'. xo kittee
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kittee
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 8:14 pm |
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kittee wrote: mrsbadmouth wrote: Thanks for the email and the links!
I am trying really hard to keep the forked up thoughts out of my head. Like, it's really forking with me that Bonny is in the back yard where it's cold. Even though I know it's not her anymore. If it was spring or summer it wouldn't bother me so much.
I think i'm gonna get one of those 'make your own stepping stone' kits and draw a Bee in the cement/plaster to put over her. i am rocking out to those links, as i type this. seriously go watch "this is not a test" over and over again. if anyone can help, it's kathleen hanna. i like the stepping stone idea, that sounds like a nice marker. plus, i really understand your thoughts too, i had a lot like that when we buried my friend amy. ya gotta keep on, keep on livin'. xo kittee
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Vantine
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 12:40 am |
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kittee wrote: kittee wrote: mrsbadmouth wrote: Thanks for the email and the links!
I am trying really hard to keep the forked up thoughts out of my head. Like, it's really forking with me that Bonny is in the back yard where it's cold. Even though I know it's not her anymore. If it was spring or summer it wouldn't bother me so much.
I think i'm gonna get one of those 'make your own stepping stone' kits and draw a Bee in the cement/plaster to put over her. i am rocking out to those links, as i type this. seriously go watch "this is not a test" over and over again. if anyone can help, it's kathleen hanna. i like the stepping stone idea, that sounds like a nice marker. plus, i really understand your thoughts too, i had a lot like that when we buried my friend amy. ya gotta keep on, keep on livin'. xo kittee We had a little dog get killed and put a stepping stone over his grave. Toby still goes out and brushes the leaves off when he is out there.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 1:49 am |
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I am so, so sorry, MBM. I don't know what else to say except that I'm just really, really sorry. You guys are in my thoughts.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 1:55 am |
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 11:15 am |
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oh I'm so so sorry! Definitely crying after reading your blog post. I think its really great of you to not be blaming your father in law or the dog owners. It sounds like the most horrible situation. Thank you for taking such good care of Bonny; I think that stone sounds like a beautiful idea.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 1:29 pm |
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I understand the conflicting thoughts about having her, but not her outside. I think the stepping stone is a lovely way to honour Bonnie, and might help to heal your heart a little.
You are both in my thoughts.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 1:49 pm |
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I am so sorry to hear this.
There's not much one can say after something like that, because nothing makes it better.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 4:44 pm |
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I'm so sorry. That's so tragic. Bonny was adorable and totally rocked the pirate look after she had her eye out.
I know what you mean about her body- even though you know it's not actually her anymore, it's tough. I had a dog die once and we had to wait a day before we could bring his body to the vets, so we had to put him in the back of the truck outside. And it really bothered me that he was shut in the truck in the dark and cold.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 5:10 pm |
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It's making me nuts because I just want to touch my dog and I can't.
I don't know what to do with Chester. He's had a few moments of normal dogness, but mostly he's being a sad lump. More lumpy than normal. I can't really afford to get him doggie anti-depressants so I guess I just have to wait it out?
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sat Dec 25, 2010 7:53 pm |
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That is horrible and I am so very sorry. You are in my thoughts.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 2:52 am |
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This is the saddest thing I've heard all week (and I've had a pretty shitty week). I'm terribly sorry. I think any way you can honor Bonny's memory (whether blogging, getting that stone, etc.) will help the healing process. It's never easy to lose a family member. XOXO
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 5:52 am |
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mrsbadmouth wrote: It's making me nuts because I just want to touch my dog and I can't.
I don't know what to do with Chester. He's had a few moments of normal dogness, but mostly he's being a sad lump. More lumpy than normal. I can't really afford to get him doggie anti-depressants so I guess I just have to wait it out? If Chester likes being touched you could try grooming/massaging him. I did this 3/4 times a day for Angus when his brother died, after 15 years together. It really blissed him out and helped me work out some of that that 'not able to touch' pain.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 9:41 am |
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Oh, poor Bonny. I'm so sorry.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 10:04 am |
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Dear Mrs Badmouth and Brian, i am so sorry that you lost such a special dog and my thought will be with you.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 12:09 pm |
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I'm sorry for your loss, MBM and Brian. Lots of love and hugs from me and the bunnies.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 1:33 pm |
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 6:48 pm |
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fork, I'm so sorry. That's just awful. I think that the stepping stone is a lovely idea. When I experienced my first pet death (he was a hamster, named Sammy) I buried him in the back yard and planted flowers that bloom every year. It's helpful to me to have a marker there. You will be in my thoughts.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 7:38 pm |
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I think the stepping stone will be a lovely way to remember her though.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 8:54 pm |
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I am terribly sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine losing one of my fur babies... I just wish I could make this alright for you.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 10:04 am |
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That's terrible. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post subject: Re: This is one of those sad threads. Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 3:24 pm |
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So the people whose dog it was stuck a card in the front door. I told my father-in-law that I didn't want to know which house it was because that would just make me angry. And, not surprisingly, the card just made me angry. I'm sure they are sorry, but I don't care. Nothing they could say would make me feel better and i'm just pissed off now. They were smart to just stick it in the door and run away though, I don't think Brian would've reacted very well if they had rang the doorbell.
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