you might be able to use this to sort, or at least get the names of places and their numbers to call and confirm.
http://www.state.nj.us/cgi-bin/agricult ... l?type=pyoI lived in Blairstown and know some places there that do picking, not sure what part of jersey you're looking for. We go to a place not far from the For the Animals Shelter, on Rt 521 (long meadow farms, maybe?) that has good apples and no animals except for the dogs who live there, or at least they didn't last time I was there.