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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Mon Dec 31, 2012 11:05 am 
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Mars, I think your experience with condoms is really interesting. I find that when I have sex with queer identified people there is a lot more talk, though & action around safer sex (even when pregnancy is not a possibility, biologically) than with straight dudes in the days of yore.
I think if everyone involved knows you are not being monogamous, it is pretty easy to say, "I have other partners I want to keep safe, too, so I'm religious about using barriers for (whatever activities you prefer to use barriers for)"
Frankly, I love it when someone initiates this conversation before sex, because it means they want to have sex with me!


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Mon Dec 31, 2012 1:08 pm 
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Yes it was super safe sex! He's actually a trans guy too, so in my experience that makes it even more complicated to be safe, but before we had sex he also talked about how he's really into being super safe, and it was pretty hot. Basically that meant he was in his underwear the whole time and forked me with his hands and a dildo. And! At one point he got out some black latex gloves and uses those for any time he wanted to finger my asparagus! And after every time he'd get his or my bodily fluids on himself but was switching up what we were doing he'd wash his hands. Dudes, it was so hot him being so confident and controlling about all that.

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Yes it was super safe sex! He's actually a trans guy too, so in my experience that makes it even more complicated to be safe, but before we had sex he also talked about how he's really into being super safe, and it was pretty hot. Basically that meant he was in his underwear the whole time and forked me with his hands and a dildo. And! At one point he got out some black latex gloves and uses those for any time he wanted to finger my asparagus! And after every time he'd get his or my bodily fluids on himself but was switching up what we were doing he'd wash his hands. Dudes, it was so hot him being so confident and controlling about all that.



wow! Good safe sex. Sounds pretty hot too. This guy is gonna find himself all over this thread AND the crush thread.

(and you, more of being all over you!)

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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My fiancé says his new year's resolution is that I get more orgasms than him.

I am okay with this.

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Thu Jan 03, 2013 11:16 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2013 9:42 pm 
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I have the flu and allergies simultaneously and have been popping boatloads of over the counter meds for both. I feel like shiitake. Is it normal for that to completely kill libido?

I hadn't seen my girlfriend in a few weeks (we were both away for the holidays) and we were fooling around today in spite of sickness because we missed eachother and I just could not get it to stay up at all :(


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2013 10:40 pm 
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Tea wrote:
I have the flu and allergies simultaneously and have been popping boatloads of over the counter meds for both. I feel like shiitake. Is it normal for that to completely kill libido?

I hadn't seen my girlfriend in a few weeks (we were both away for the holidays) and we were fooling around today in spite of sickness because we missed eachother and I just could not get it to stay up at all :(


Is it normal for being really sick to kill your libido?

Yes.

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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Okay good. I was worried that it was something I should be worried about.


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Sun Jan 06, 2013 10:45 pm 
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In other news, I hate the flu.


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Mon Jan 07, 2013 1:27 am 
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Dude, flu's and sicknesses should stay out of people's dicks IMO

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Mon Jan 07, 2013 1:38 am 
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SO I had sex with Magic Crush again the night before last, so another guy getting me to the twice mark. (So far though, now the twice mark is still the most times with any one guy for quite some time)

Anyhow... It was again ridiculously awesome even though I was a gimp from my tailbone issues. Dudes... dirty talk, some spanking... ah man.

I kind of think I might have an allergy to something sexy time related, so like latex or something in lube. I get UTI's so often now since my breakup, always start the day after a sexual encounter, and in the relationship with my ex relationship it was all bare. Also, definitely never got it after the unsafe sex I've had since then. The only confusing thing is I think once or twice after safe sex since I have been a-okay. But mostly, not. So, I have to figure that one out. Thank jeebus for that D-Mannose recommendation in the UTI thread.

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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Spanking with a tailbone injury? Is THAT safe?

Maybe you could do some experimenting on lube vs latex. Do some latex rubbing around one day, maybe get a nitrile and try that another day, and try just the lube another day and see what happens. I suppose you could also do more cranberry juice too, as a preventative (after the experiments)

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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Also, some lubed condoms contain a spermicide that gives some folks irritation or utis.


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Mon Jan 07, 2013 2:23 pm 
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Mars wrote:
I kind of think I might have an allergy to something sexy time related, so like latex or something in lube. I get UTI's so often now since my breakup, always start the day after a sexual encounter, and in the relationship with my ex relationship it was all bare. Also, definitely never got it after the unsafe sex I've had since then. The only confusing thing is I think once or twice after safe sex since I have been a-okay. But mostly, not. So, I have to figure that one out. Thank jeebus for that D-Mannose recommendation in the UTI thread.



Back when I used condoms, I had UTIs alllll the time. I don't think I have a latex allergy, and it was worse with some batches than others, so I assumed I was sensitive to the cheapo water-based lube condoms come with. I still get some frequent discomfort even now that we don't use condoms anymore, although it's nowhere near as bad. My solution has been to pee+rinse (if I don't have time for a full shower, I use the shower head while sitting on the toilet) just after sex, systematically. It seems like a hassle, but honestly the lack of pain is worth it for me. I tried all the UTI prevention tips and this had been the only foolproof thing for me.

If I had to use condoms again, at this point I would try to use non latex ones with my fancy oil and silicon based lubes.


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2013 3:51 am 
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Spanking with a tailbone injury? Is THAT safe?

Different area of bum... so that didn't hurt. Though Some positions did... I'm not very nice to my body methinks :(

Will try different condoms next... maybe those Lifestyle 'SKYN' ones if there's a non-lubricated? Blah, Ill probably just go look and hope they have some various choices.

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
PostPosted: Tue Jan 08, 2013 10:37 am 
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I had amazing sexytimes last night (extra amazing, they are usually pretty damn good)! It was the first time I used something to actually "tie" my guy's hands together... only a hair elastic and I didn't leave it on too long since I didn't know if it was tight enough to hurt him. And I was more rough with him than I'd ever been. Usually I let him take the lead or at least contribute to the progression of moves, but it was super nice to fully take control last night and I'm pretty sure he enjoyed it too!

Now I really want to get a nice piece of silky/slinky fabric to have around for blindfolding or easily knot around his (or my) hands. I have velcro things but I like the idea of being able to knot something. Plus the soft texture/gentleness in contrast with the binding that a wisp of slinky fabric provides seems way hotter.


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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Mars wrote:
Dude, flu's and sicknesses should stay out of people's dicks IMO


Agreed!

The good news is that I was feeling much, much, MUCH better yesterday and Footface was proven right.


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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Yep. Just got boned. Twice in a row.

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Seeing the special lady friend for the first time in nearly 2 weeks tonight. Yay! Sexytimes! And cuddletimes!

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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hey. HEY. choads are okay too.



I'm a little late to the game on this, but I'm pretty cool with whatever size junk my partner is working with. I've been with boys from 3-12 inches. My recent ex is not terribly well endowed, and has been, from the first time we slept together, one of my favorite sexual partners ever. A penis is one small part (so to speak) of my sexual attraction/experience with someone. I just have average junk myself, so maybe that's part of it?

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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Dan Savage always insists that people with small junk are often better in bed than the well-endowed, because they put in so much extra work to be really good with their mouths and hands.

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I always take his advice with a grain of salt.


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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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I'm not by any means saying his advice is always awesome or right. What I said above wasn't even advice-- just an opinion by a dude who has interacted with a bunch of dongs in his day.

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 Post subject: Re: human sexual response
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Well I'll take his opinions with a side eye.


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