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 Post subject: Re: Sex should not be painful, right? Help me! (maybe tmi?)
PostPosted: Tue Feb 01, 2011 8:18 pm 
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Tofulish wrote:
Here you go, but caveat: the website is pretty goofy and the videos are NSFW (and also they focus on the genital portion of things).

http://www.orgasmicproviders.com/home/c ... nstration/



Dead link. Try again?

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 Post subject: Re: Sex should not be painful, right? Help me! (maybe tmi?)
PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2011 10:19 am 
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I had this problem, doc told me it was this: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0002457

I didn't do therapy though, just worked through on my own.

I'm also allergic to spermicide, but found that out early on. whew.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex should not be painful, right? Help me! (maybe tmi?)
PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2011 10:34 am 
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I think they're revamping the site:
http://www.orgasmicproviders.com/2011/0 ... -provider/

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Orgasmic Providing is a conscious practice in love, sensuality, and intimacy, between two people in which a designated Giver provides focused attention on specific pathways of pleasure to a Receiver who can then fully surrender to his or her body’s orgasmic energy system without any depletion of energy.


Basically the Giver focuses on a pattern of massage that is so predictable the Receiver can really relax - starts with down the back (neck to hips) and then the backs of the arms, then on to the backs of the legs, then front of the chest and arms and then the legs, all using a firm "grounding" touch. The Giver asks permission before moving on. Once the Receiver is so relaxed it is like an altered state, the Giver asks if s/he can move to the genitals and then shifts to an arousing, fingertip touch, that raises blood to the surface of the skin.

It is an amazing technic because it really does move you into an altered state where you are so much more receptive and unguarded.

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 Post subject: Re: Sex should not be painful, right? Help me! (maybe tmi?)
PostPosted: Thu Feb 03, 2011 10:53 am 
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You're smart to go to a doctor just to rule anything out. But yes, sex 3-4 a day is a lot for anyone, especially someone who just started. To state the obvious, sex should be pleasurable for both people involved.

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