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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2012 2:42 am 
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I say I'm desperate. But my housemate thinks I'm too choosy. I'm just turned on by intelligent and witty individuals. And I too picky? If I was truly desperate would I fork whoever?

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2012 3:50 am 
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caterpillar wrote:
You may want to consider retracting that statement.

If you can't see why it might be problematic / downright offensive I'm sure plenty of people here will be able to explain it to you. Possibly without the restraint of Chipmunk and CQ.


I see very clearly that a lot of people do not agree with this since, well this is all round me every day. Sexual innuendo, jokes in sitcoms etc. pp... it is very clear how exactly people think about sex in our society and which values are attached to it. And the wording may be offensive, but to be honest, this is exactly how I feel about this topic.

I can wrap my head as little around anyone wanting a stranger inside of their body or wanting to be inside of a stranger's body as I can wrap my head around anyone treating animals like things. Yes, extremely different things and I am not comparing them or implying they are bad in the same way. But I feel equally strong about either of those issues.
I will leave this thread now because this is about personal beliefs and values and if you don't agree with someone, then you just don't agree. Sorry for posting here.


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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2012 4:33 am 
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It's not the wording that is offensive. It's the idea that you have the right to decide how people should live their lives and fulfill their sexual needs.

For future reference though, words like sick and total waste of life are particularly judgmental.

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2012 5:36 am 
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does that mean doing it sober with a stranger acceptable?

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Sun Apr 01, 2012 5:56 am 
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Guys, I'm really too lazy at 6:45 am on a Sunday to investigate the options for splitting this thread, but let's keep it on topic, ok? We're not having sex in here! Please start a new thread if you'd like to brainstorm solutions to frustrating problems involving specific sexual acts or evaluate other people's sexual choices. (Some of these things obviously deserve more consideration than others.) Thanks.

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 10:41 am 
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I know this is the not-about-sex thread and not the not-about-relationships thread, but I am so over being single right now, with no romantic/sexual prospects in sight.

My friend posted a video on facebook that she made about a trip she took with her boyfriend and was really excited for me to see it, but I could only handle about 30 seconds. Watching the video made me feel like I was glimpsing the inside of someone else's relationship, and it suddenly hit me with what I am missing out on right now.

Yep, totally over being single. Ugh.

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 10:54 am 
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Just for the record I am totally OK with sex for the sake of sex. I <3 sex and I am not ashamed of that.

Anyway, I know it has only been a very short time but I have reawakened the beast and now I miss sex more than ever. Plus I think it will be a while before my next fork. Sad times.

I am not a big "relationship" person, pistachiorose, but I feel like I am missing out a little. Mostly because my friends are doing the whole double dating thing and I keep getting left out.


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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
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Seems to me that's an appropriate topic for this thread, pistachiorose. I'm feeling pretty frustrated with my lack of options, and online dating really isn't coming to the rescue as it has in the past. My work schedule (and location) prevent me from doing much during the week, and I sometimes work weekends, so there's not even much of an opportunity to get out and meet new people.

I think maybe I'm craving new people more than anything else.

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
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Yeah, I think just the possibility of meeting new people is an important thing to have in one's life.

Most of the time I don't think much about what I've been missing out on in being single, so I was irritated when I saw my friend's video and felt like it was being shoved in my face. It's not even stupid lovey-dovey or anything, just lots of shots of her boyfriend smiling into the camera with that smitten look on his face. I'd probably think it was cute if I wasn't single/lonely.

Sex sucks. fork sex to hell.

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 3:26 pm 
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Yeah, my very short absence from this thread awakened a beast too, dammit!


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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 11:05 pm 
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My friend and I were talking about our issues with people that we meet/starting relationships and we both are having the same problem. We'll meet someone who shares a lot of the same interests, we'll get along with them really well and we'll seem to be a good match but in reality, our personalities are so different that it wouldn't make a working relationship. It's strange how you can have so many things in common with someone but on the whole, you can be so different.

On the bright side, I've had more time for Scrabble. (*cries*)

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 7:13 am 
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Mr. Shankly wrote:
My friend and I were talking about our issues with people that we meet/starting relationships and we both are having the same problem. We'll meet someone who shares a lot of the same interests, we'll get along with them really well and we'll seem to be a good match but in reality, our personalities are so different that it wouldn't make a working relationship. It's strange how you can have so many things in common with someone but on the whole, you can be so different.

On the bright side, I've had more time for Scrabble. (*cries*)


I have major issues with this, especially with extroverts. I like extroverts and the super-charisma that comes with them often, but there is a fundamental difference there for me that typically causes things to fracture over time, I can only push myself to be super-social so long before starting to resent it and hoarding alone-time like Gollum or something.

So while I stop pursuing people with whom I'm fundamentally incompatible I'm hanging out in this thread. Because while I whole-heartedly believe in random sex (ha), I'm not in one of those parts of my life right now. I kind of wish I was.

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 7:27 am 
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As much as I'm loving being single, I'm getting tired of this dry spell. 4 months is too long for someone who is probably a sex addict. I'm not into casual sex (I have to trust someone to sleep with them), so god knows how long it'll be. So much frustration.

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 8:09 am 
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Dandelion wrote:
So while I stop pursuing people with whom I'm fundamentally incompatible I'm hanging out in this thread. Because while I whole-heartedly believe in random sex (ha), I'm not in one of those parts of my life right now. I kind of wish I was.


This is where I was for a while (like the past 2 years) but I am ready for some major boning but I don't know anyone who I would want to bone right now!


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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 9:04 am 
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Mind if I join you all? 16 months and counting... Nothing new here. I'm a bit of a weirdo when it comes to all things physical. *sigh*

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Thu Apr 05, 2012 5:07 pm 
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booberthefraggle wrote:
I AM starting to hate couples/ PDA
This is terrible!

I am soooo cranky. so cranky.


But the art school boys! Despite the fact that my art school had 65% women, I had more romantic/sexual prospects coming from art school boys than I do now.

Go to my school and participate in the major-specific orgies!

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
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Why did I start that other thread?

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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
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So while I stop pursuing people with whom I'm fundamentally incompatible I'm hanging out in this thread. Because while I whole-heartedly believe in random sex (ha), I'm not in one of those parts of my life right now. I kind of wish I was.


This is where I was for a while (like the past 2 years) but I am ready for some major boning but I don't know anyone who I would want to bone right now!

Ha! That's why the whole thing is sort of frightening, I'm afraid my ability to get laid when I want to will decline in some way/I'll lose my well-developed "hookup network." I guess my personal development is worth that risk...

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Dandelion wrote:
Sarah-Jane wrote:
Dandelion wrote:
So while I stop pursuing people with whom I'm fundamentally incompatible I'm hanging out in this thread. Because while I whole-heartedly believe in random sex (ha), I'm not in one of those parts of my life right now. I kind of wish I was.


This is where I was for a while (like the past 2 years) but I am ready for some major boning but I don't know anyone who I would want to bone right now!

Ha! That's why the whole thing is sort of frightening, I'm afraid my ability to get laid when I want to will decline in some way/I'll lose my well-developed "hookup network." I guess my personal development is worth that risk...


Yeah it was definitely worthwhile. Unfortunately for me I waited 2 years then had sex with someone who turned out to be a bit of a kumquat, so I kinda wish I had waited a little longer!


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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
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Kumquat is totally my type. That's one of the habits I'm hoping to break. But that one is harder said than done.

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Dandelion wrote:
Kumquat is totally my type. That's one of the habits I'm hoping to break. But that one is harder said than done.


Small and surprisingly tart? Giiirl - you need to upgrade to some sort of mangerine

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Im totally going to get my cork sucked tonight!!!!

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2012 10:08 pm 
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Hey now! I promised nothing!

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Hey guys, I am going to put Adam Crisis's peen in my mouth tonight!


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 Post subject: Re: A thread not about the sex that some of us aren't having
PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2012 10:14 pm 
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You have a 5000 mile long peener? Hot damn, that's impressive.

You should contact Norris McWhirter about that.

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