human sexual response

DarthCupcake · **Posted:** Fri Mar 11, 2011 10:05 am

I know this sounds ridiculous, but here goes anyways...

I didn't actually achieve orgasm until I was 21, for starters (alone, let alone with a partner!), so I know all about the frustration of trying and failing. I still have a very hard time climaxing for the first couple sessions with a new partner, because I'm anxious and can't relax enough.

Well, with the current dude, he was doing his thing, and I was getting close, and yet for some reason my mind wandered. It was something totally and completely mundane--I think I was worrying about what outfit I was going to wear the next day or something like that--and then suddenly I was holding onto the covers for dear life and surfing a sweet orgasm tidal wave. By letting my mind go somewhere OTHER than my anxiety and self-consciousness and neuroses, my body was free to do its thing and wonderful things happened.

I'm not saying it'll work for everyone; I might be a freak! But hey, it never hurt to mull it over and maybe give it a try or something. Anyways, I hope it helps at least a little!

vegetalion · **Posted:** Fri Mar 11, 2011 10:34 am

DarthCupcake wrote:

I think I was worrying about what outfit I was going to wear the next day or something like that--and then suddenly I was holding onto the covers for dear life and surfing a sweet orgasm tidal wave. By letting my mind go somewhere OTHER than my anxiety and self-consciousness and neuroses, my body was free to do its thing and wonderful things happened.

Ha! I want this to work in non-sexy situations too. Like if I'm looking through my closet for something wear--BANG.

fabulous_muscles · **Posted:** Fri Mar 18, 2011 12:37 pm

idatetattooedguys wrote:

I have a g-spot and custard hard when it's hit. Once I actually jumped off a boy and clung to the headboard. It was intense.

What? Goddamn... that's just... want.

I hate you.

DarthCupcake · **Posted:** Mon Mar 21, 2011 5:10 pm

Boyfriend and I have started to broach the subject about our particular sexual preferences/interests.

A lot of them overlap.

Things are getting interesting. :D

Adam Crisis · **Posted:** Mon Mar 21, 2011 5:30 pm

DarthCupcake wrote:

I know this sounds ridiculous, but here goes anyways...

I didn't actually achieve orgasm until I was 21, for starters (alone, let alone with a partner!), so I know all about the frustration of trying and failing. I still have a very hard time climaxing for the first couple sessions with a new partner, because I'm anxious and can't relax enough.

Well, with the current dude, he was doing his thing, and I was getting close, and yet for some reason my mind wandered. It was something totally and completely mundane--I think I was worrying about what outfit I was going to wear the next day or something like that--and then suddenly I was holding onto the covers for dear life and surfing a sweet orgasm tidal wave. By letting my mind go somewhere OTHER than my anxiety and self-consciousness and neuroses, my body was free to do its thing and wonderful things happened.

I'm not saying it'll work for everyone; I might be a freak! But hey, it never hurt to mull it over and maybe give it a try or something. Anyways, I hope it helps at least a little!

Not ridiculous. I often cant finish when Im with someone new because Im anxious and the crazy bad esteem part of my brain is normally trying to take over. Sometimes as soon as I am about to literally enter a girl, I'll lose my boner entirely and it will not come back. And it sucks because I know that makes the girls feel weird and some have tried to bring me back to life...god bless em and their moxy, but I know once thats gone its not coming back for that session

CNA · **Posted:** Mon Mar 21, 2011 5:54 pm

I've been extra horny and very grabby for the past week... I've made my boyfriend actually say, "WHOA! Hold on... It's resting..." several times in the past two days.

j-dub · **Posted:** Mon Mar 21, 2011 6:46 pm

DarthCupcake wrote:

Boyfriend and I have started to broach the subject about our particular sexual preferences/interests.

A lot of them overlap.

Things are getting interesting. :D

This is a neat survey that you fill out and your partner fills out and then it tabulates what you both are into or want to try or would be willing to talk about doing and presents it in a handy chart! I did it with my sweetie and we learned a few new things about each other--as well as had a couple funny moments where one of us rated something as "yay! fun! let's try that!" and the other rated it as "we already do that."

Nora · **Posted:** Thu Mar 24, 2011 12:10 pm

I hate it when I don't know if something was a one night stand! Am I supposed to text him? Do I wait for him to text? Do I ask if he wants to do it again?

VeganMar · **Posted:** Thu Mar 24, 2011 3:05 pm

WhiskersGal wrote:

New guy I was kinda dating/talking hit my up all day, everyday for a month..."how was your day", "what are you up to", "awww, you're sick...can i come take care of you or bring you anything?" & just chit chatty stuff all the time. I didn't think I was that into him, but continued to give him a chance. Last Friday night he rocked my freakin world with some crazy hot porno sex all night & morning. Ever since then, he hasn't reached out to me once (though responded if I texted him, it just hasn't been the same...). After that night I finally was like, "wow, maybe I am into him...and DAMN I want some more freak nasty sex with him..." But now I don't know if he is intereted anymore, or as much. what the fizzle?!? I'm wayyyy outta his league & hotter than him...but I guess now that he "accomplished his goal", he is done putting the daily effort in? fork THAT!

Dude was a freak though & you could totally tell he watched a lot of porn...But shiitake, now all I can think about is how I wanna get it on with him again. I need new man candy..

Ew. What a piece.

If it makes you feel any better, my ex-boyfriend and I still live together. We even still share a bed.

Adam Crisis · **Posted:** Thu Mar 24, 2011 3:18 pm

VeganMar wrote:

Ew. What a piece.

If it makes you feel any better, my ex-boyfriend and I still live together. We even still share a bed.

wow, youre a better person than I am...I wouldnt be able to do that

vegetalion · **Posted:** Fri Mar 25, 2011 9:42 am

Nora wrote:

I hate it when I don't know if something was a one night stand! Am I supposed to text him? Do I wait for him to text? Do I ask if he wants to do it again?

I'd say a text saying "last night was fun" or "I had a good time the other night!" is okay, but stay away from "OMG CAN WE GET MARRIED RIGHT NOW." Just my two cents.

Nora · **Posted:** Fri Mar 25, 2011 4:42 pm

vegetalion wrote:

Nora wrote:

I hate it when I don't know if something was a one night stand! Am I supposed to text him? Do I wait for him to text? Do I ask if he wants to do it again?

I'd say a text saying "last night was fun" or "I had a good time the other night!" is okay, but stay away from "OMG CAN WE GET MARRIED RIGHT NOW." Just my two cents.

We had made plans to hang out this weekend before anything happened between us. Last night I texted him saying "hey I hope you're still going to come party with me saturday" No text back. Also, we work together so I'll see him eventually! (I know, I know, I shouldn't have slept with someone I work with)

rachell37 · **Posted:** Fri Mar 25, 2011 6:29 pm

I had some pretty damn good sex tonight. Jussayin'.

melisser · **Posted:** Sun Mar 27, 2011 10:21 am

Adam Crisis wrote:

VeganMar wrote:

Ew. What a piece.

If it makes you feel any better, my ex-boyfriend and I still live together. We even still share a bed.

wow, youre a better person than I am...I wouldnt be able to do that

Yeah, super fun with your EX-HUSBAND too. I mean, we're friends, but yeaaaaaah.
Luckily, I was gone for most of the time we were still living together.

smoothie · **Posted:** Sun Mar 27, 2011 12:35 pm

i had sex for the first time in almost 3 months a few days ago. i swear, it's the longest break i've had pretty much.. ever. i am starting to become uninterested in sex. UGH. do not want this to happen. definitely want new boy to fool around with and have awesome sex. not the guy i hooked up with, though.

Sarah-Jane · **Posted:** Sun Mar 27, 2011 2:29 pm

pastabake wrote:

WhiskersGal wrote:

fabulous_muscles wrote:

Never forget the power of the peen.

Hmmmm.....or the tongue. For me, the tongue works magic that the peen could never do.

The tongue does not do much for me! I enjoy the peen much more.

Yeah when the penis is involved I can have the best orgasms, definitely plural. With the tongue I am all like that's nice and all but nothing is going to happen. At least that is how I remember it being. I'm off back to that other thread now.

Fizzgig · **Posted:** Sun Mar 27, 2011 7:45 pm

hey! hey! hey guys! I had sex yesterday! I'm feeling pretty pleased with myself. I even had sex TWICE yesterday. and now my body is sore all over...good, good things.

fabulous_muscles · **Posted:** Mon Mar 28, 2011 6:04 pm

Let's hear it for both morning sex AND surprise daytime sex.

fabulous_muscles · **Posted:** Mon Apr 04, 2011 10:09 am

Stumbled upon a fantastical position I've never tried before. It's pretty much me looking like I'm about to do the "this is how a crab walks" (lindsay lohan on family guy moment) move on top of my partner, him laying on his back, our heads in the same spot.

forking AWESOME.

BunniesRevenge · **Posted:** Mon Apr 04, 2011 10:35 am

waking up in the middle of the night for some sexy times... always a favorite :)

idatetattooedguys · **Posted:** Tue Apr 05, 2011 8:08 pm

fabulous_muscles wrote:

idatetattooedguys wrote:

I have a g-spot and custard hard when it's hit. Once I actually jumped off a boy and clung to the headboard. It was intense.

What? Goddamn... that's just... want.

I hate you.

It's only happened a few times and mostly with this one guy. It started out feeling good then it became slightly unpleasant, like getting tickled for too long. At one point I had to stop, hence the clinging to the headboard like a monkey.

idatetattooedguys · **Posted:** Wed Apr 27, 2011 11:04 pm

Bumping this thread to say I bumped uglies last night...and this morning!

Hey-o!

gnarls_baudelaire · **Joined:** Wed Nov 03, 2010 11:36 pm **Posts:** 158

I scored last night, too!

lycophyte · **Posted:** Mon May 02, 2011 10:48 am

I feel like being TMI with the excitement of an old toy that I'm just finally getting around to using (I always had the bad habit of buying new toys and then getting dumped shortly after and not getting to use them!).

Anyway, the feeldoe is awesome!

And Brian asked for a review of the under-the-bed restraints I bought before my last ex dumped me and they are pretty good! I mean the bands could be a little tighter (and anyone with normal sized wrists are probably good and tight), but they seem to hold up, though.

8ball · **Posted:** Mon May 02, 2011 1:03 pm

I had a very, very happy lunchtime yesterday. Today I have a very sore left shoulder.

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