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My closest friend besides C&S, pretty much, had a miscarriage today. I am on the other side of the country from her. Six or seven weeks in, early enough that it's still in the timeframe where you don't tell anyone you're pregnant because it's pretty common that suddenly you aren't any more, but still. It had been over a year and she wanted it a lot and there were other things going on there and now she's not pregnant any more. She's in the hospital and I can't be there. Her husband is a good guy and he's there, and that's really the best thing, but still.

That's pretty much it.

i've been there. it was devastating, especially because people don't expect you to mourn the loss when you lose it so early. i don't really have any advice, just that it can really affect a person <3

I've been there too...my heart goes out to her.

I think the best thing is that you know-about the struggles, that she was pregnant, that she's hurting now. For me, it was so hard to feel like I was secretly going through it and the people who did know were everything.