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PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:27 am 
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guess who got a second date?


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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:32 am 
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I got a message yesterday from person A. Then I got one today from person B saying 'my friend A messaged you yesterday'. Awkward much?

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 5:49 pm 
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I met my boyfriend on OKcupid. The relationship is pretty new but we somehow skipped the dating stage and went straight to relationship. We get along so well that the whole relationship just feels so familiar already. At the moment it is kinda long distance which sucks, but i’m moving to where he lives (an awesome coincidence) early next year. He was the first and only person I dated via online dating. Yeah, I somehow won the online dating lottery on that one. Good luck to you all still playing the dating game! The process can really suck at times but the outcome is always worth it!


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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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The guy I had coffee with on Sunday has been messaging me constantly on okcupid since, but has yet to mention getting together again. I don't get it.

Also I'm pretty sure I'm never going to hear from the guy I went on two dates with. I asked him if he wanted to hang out over this last weekend, he said he was busy but free this week, so I told him to text me when he wanted to do something and I haven't heard from him since. Figures.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 11:25 am 
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The guy I had coffee with on Sunday has been messaging me constantly on okcupid since, but has yet to mention getting together again. I don't get it.

Also I'm pretty sure I'm never going to hear from the guy I went on two dates with. I asked him if he wanted to hang out over this last weekend, he said he was busy but free this week, so I told him to text me when he wanted to do something and I haven't heard from him since. Figures.



Ugh, why can't people be better at dating? Let's get a little forthrightness here people! Seriously, you and I really need to institute post-date breakdown sessions. To hell with looking desperate!


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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 11:28 am 
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I think I am terrible at dating, but people keep proving to me that you can, in fact, be worse.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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amandabear wrote:
Also I'm pretty sure I'm never going to hear from the guy I went on two dates with. I asked him if he wanted to hang out over this last weekend, he said he was busy but free this week, so I told him to text me when he wanted to do something and I haven't heard from him since. Figures.

... Or I could get a text from him 15 minutes after posting this. Oops!

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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I think I am terrible at dating, but people keep proving to me that you can, in fact, be worse.

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I'm glad he finally texted you back though! are you actually going to get a date from the texting or is it inexplicable texting for the inexplicable panda head?

I think I'm removing myself from the dating pool for a bit. I'm not actually going to take down my profile, but I'm going to ignore it for a while. Dating is just so much up and down and confusion...

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 1:23 pm 
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I just got this message:

I like to ask this from the beginning, to see if there's any chance of finding what I'm looking for: are you interested at all in casual relationships, like friends to cuddle and maybe make out with?

If so, let's chat and get to know each other! <3


A cuddle/make-out buddy? Does he think I'm 12? That just made me remarkably more uncomfortable than it should have. Delete.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 1:26 pm 
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amandabear wrote:
I think I am terrible at dating, but people keep proving to me that you can, in fact, be worse.

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I'm glad he finally texted you back though! are you actually going to get a date from the texting or is it inexplicable texting for the inexplicable panda head?

I think I'm removing myself from the dating pool for a bit. I'm not actually going to take down my profile, but I'm going to ignore it for a while. Dating is just so much up and down and confusion...

Isn't that the truth.

I texted him back, but as for if we will set a date, who even knows. He's awful at replying to stuff in a reasonable amount of time.

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A cuddle/make-out buddy? Does he think I'm 12? That just made me remarkably more uncomfortable than it should have. Delete.

I totally want a cuddle buddy. That message would weird me out too, though.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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amandabear wrote:

fabulous_muscles wrote:
A cuddle/make-out buddy? Does he think I'm 12? That just made me remarkably more uncomfortable than it should have. Delete.

I totally want a cuddle buddy. That message would weird me out too, though.


He was some 20-year old kid with some sort of handle that had to do with pumpkins or something fluffy. I can't remember. His smile was totally creepy.

Cuddle buddy, one dynamic. Make-out buddy? Another dynamic. I think he wants someone to sit next to him that he can grope while watching anime at his mom's house.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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Also very possible. There is no shortage of creepers.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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amandabear wrote:
Also very possible. There is no shortage of creepers.


My profile specifically states no people who want to talk about how awesome bacon is, no religious people, and no relentlessly creepy people.

I don't care if people are religious, I just don't want to date them.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 1:45 pm 
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Yeah, but people who are creepy don't usually think they're creepy.

And my profile states a lot of things, but I still get messages from 19 year olds who live three states away and have kids.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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Yeah, but people who are creepy don't usually think they're creepy.


Ah, you and your logic.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 2:38 pm 
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amandabear wrote:
And my profile states a lot of things, but I still get messages from 19 year olds who live three states away and have kids.

I don't understand why this happens! How do so many people not read profiles of people they're writing to? Some kind of spray and pray thing?

I have an account, but no picture or profile info at all, and I still get messages. People are weird.


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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 2:42 pm 
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fabulous_muscles wrote:
I just got this message:

I like to ask this from the beginning, to see if there's any chance of finding what I'm looking for: are you interested at all in casual relationships, like friends to cuddle and maybe make out with?

If so, let's chat and get to know each other! <3


A cuddle/make-out buddy? Does he think I'm 12? That just made me remarkably more uncomfortable than it should have. Delete.

This would totally make me uncomfortable and I would definitely delete it, but a cuddle/make out buddy is exactly what I'd like. Maybe I should message him.


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fabulous_muscles wrote:
I just got this message:

I like to ask this from the beginning, to see if there's any chance of finding what I'm looking for: are you interested at all in casual relationships, like friends to cuddle and maybe make out with?

If so, let's chat and get to know each other! <3


A cuddle/make-out buddy? Does he think I'm 12? That just made me remarkably more uncomfortable than it should have. Delete.

This would totally make me uncomfortable and I would definitely delete it, but a cuddle/make out buddy is exactly what I'd like. Maybe I should message him.

all I can picture is the Seal wanting a cuddle/make out buddy. it is completely creepy to think about. although I'm not sure if that image is more or less creepy than the original message in question...

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Amy wrote:
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And my profile states a lot of things, but I still get messages from 19 year olds who live three states away and have kids.

I don't understand why this happens! How do so many people not read profiles of people they're writing to? Some kind of spray and pray thing?

I have an account, but no picture or profile info at all, and I still get messages. People are weird.

I have no idea. I would never message someone without reading their profile, but it happens allllll the time.

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Fizzgig wrote:
all I can picture is the Seal wanting a cuddle/make out buddy. it is completely creepy to think about. although I'm not sure if that image is more or less creepy than the original message in question...


For a moment, thought you meant Seal, as in the musician. Equally as funny.

Dunananana kiss from a rose something something...

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Today's creepo message:

"hey ..how is ıt goin... l want ask to you... what is the mean sex for you? sex is importand for you in yourlife?"

Time to disable my profile, because I totally just found my soulmate!

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 13, 2010 12:49 am 
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So, tonight, I am staying in. I was sewing my new denim vest which is almost perfect (supposed to be black on black but golden thread on black - not a huge deal) putting patches on it. Anyways, got a message from this girl. She asked if I wanted to chat. Sure, nothing creepy about that. Our conversation starts normal until I asked her why she moved out here.

girl: married a marine
me: still married?
girl: yeah
me: umm not my cup of tea, girl, to date someone taken, sorry.
girl: not even to have friends?
girl: well, the hubs is totally cool with what i do. but if you feel the way you do, even about making friends. that's cool.
me: umm...later.


Yikes!

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Coffee date this afternoon. He was fun to talk to and cute enough but I don't know if there was any chemistry there. It's really way too difficult to find someone you want to talk to AND have sex with.


Yeah, I've been finding that too. But with the guy I've been seeing I've been having the, uh, opposite problem.

(If only we could also talk well, things would be pretty great.)


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jessfive wrote:
So, tonight, I am staying in. I was sewing my new denim vest which is almost perfect (supposed to be black on black but golden thread on black - not a huge deal) putting patches on it. Anyways, got a message from this girl. She asked if I wanted to chat. Sure, nothing creepy about that. Our conversation starts normal until I asked her why she moved out here.

girl: married a marine
me: still married?
girl: yeah
me: umm not my cup of tea, girl, to date someone taken, sorry.
girl: not even to have friends?
girl: well, the hubs is totally cool with what i do. but if you feel the way you do, even about making friends. that's cool.
me: umm...later.


Yikes!


Yep, yikes. I've talked to a few people who were married/with someone and just looking for friends in the area, but they were always really up front with it, which I'm totally cool with. But that's pretty weird.


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I would probably NOT be creeped by someone looking for a cuddle buddy, or even a makeout buddy.

But I guess I've been to cuddle parties in the past, where you are cuddling with 20 strangers in a pile on the floor.

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