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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 9:59 am 
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Everyone is so freaking cute!!! <3

Also Jojo that is seriously the best compliment ever.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 10:13 am 
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Its so nice to see everyone looking so happy together! Yay for love <3

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 10:23 am 
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Yeah! YAY for love!

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 6:57 pm 
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My boyfriend and I broke up. There's no anger or fighting but we were both staying on a sinking ship because I didn't want him to have to face his issues I can't talk about publicly and he didn't want me to be alone. And now I'm alone again. Which is terrifying. Like I'm good at it and I can do it, I just don't know when it will end or if it'll ever end and being in a relationship makes being an introvert so easy. Now I'll be more like a scary recluse than a normal introvert. This is hard. The worst part really is having to give up your best friend.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:05 pm 
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I'm sorry Fee! Hugs hugs hugs.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:06 pm 
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Fee, I know I don't know the situation, and you have to give up the relationship, but if there is no animosity, why give him up as your best friend? If you aren't mad at eachother, and not looking for another person right now, can you not stay in touch and friends when you need eachother, or is that too hard/loaded?

m-toes, I don't mean to objectify, but you have great, great legs, so strong looking and shapely!


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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:15 pm 
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We have an on-again-off-again history that needs to just die already. I don't know if I can really keep it totally off because I'm all human and weak and stuff, but it needs to be that way for now.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:26 pm 
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I'm so sorry Fee, hopefully you can make peace with everything xx

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:29 pm 
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Fezza, that picture is adorable!

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 7:35 pm 
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I know, right?! He was looking for a new hat and we found one with ears on! He pins them down but I like to let them loose now and again :D


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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 8:17 pm 
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Fee wrote:
We have an on-again-off-again history that needs to just die already. I don't know if I can really keep it totally off because I'm all human and weak and stuff, but it needs to be that way for now.


I'm sorry, Fee. I know what you mean about losing your best friend. It's hard, and it sucks, but you will get through it. It sounds from the above like you've done some thinking and know what you need to do.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 8:22 pm 
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Fee, many hugs and good luck. I know what you mean about the introvert stuff, I feel like that a lot as well.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sat Jan 25, 2014 8:56 pm 
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Ugh SRock and Fee, I'm sorry. :( Hugs!

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 12:37 am 
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I'm sorry to hear about the break ups in this thread. Hugs and good thoughts to everyone.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 1:06 am 
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Ah. Forgot to post a pic. This is a few years ago but I can't find any newer ones except for wedding photos! Guess we don't like taking pics!
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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 7:02 am 
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Yesterday I asked N if he would come and hang out at school with me because i wasn't feeling too awesome, and he came and hung out all day, which means from 6pm - 3.30am (because architect school is REALLY intense before exams) - and we went home in the middle of the night and were freezing our butts off and it was lovely because we were together.


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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 8:04 am 
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I'm sorry Fee, I know it is rough.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 8:22 am 
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Smoothie, that's awesome! Couroupita, you two are cute!

Many hugs to those dealing with breakups. <3

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 10:47 am 
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Fee wrote:
We have an on-again-off-again history that needs to just die already. I don't know if I can really keep it totally off because I'm all human and weak and stuff, but it needs to be that way for now.
I'm sorry, Fee. I know what you mean about losing your best friend. It's hard, and it sucks, but you will get through it. It sounds from the above like you've done some thinking and know what you need to do.
I'm sorry you're going through this. I've been there, too, and it does suck, but we need to recognize when space and boundaries are in our own best interest, even if we still care for the other person. Look after yourself; I'm sending you good thoughts!

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 11:19 am 
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fee, it definitely sounds like you made a very mature and thoughtful decision. I'm sorry though, sometimes those decisions really suck to make.

mr. fezza is adorable.

J kept texting me at work angrily yesterday because he was cleaning the house and was mad at me because I didn't do the vacuuming and cat-cleanup I've committed to doing on my days off because I went to Vancouver instead. Fair enough, but he kept saying he wan't to sit down with me when I get home for a long talk, and it made me really nervous and scared which wasn't really fair because I had four long meetings at work for which I needed to be really on the ball. Then I accidentally locked my car key in my trunk with my bike (UGH) so I had to get him to bring me my spare but he couldn't find it and got really mad at me so I was just like whatever and I asked a guy at work who knows how to break into car trunks to help, and while he was cursing the Koreans for my impossible-to-break-in to Hyundi, Jay showed up with the key but he was really furious and it was embarrassing. We finally made it home but we were both driving and it was really really dark and foggy and when I got home after him and prepared to have whatever long, uncomfortable, scary "talk" he had planned, he just hugged me and said he was sorry for being harsh and the fog made him so worried that something would happen to me on the way home and he'd been such a meanie all day. I told him I was sorry about the cleaning and the key in trunk and it was a happy amicable ending to a stupid day. Wow that was a really boring story.


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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 11:43 am 
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i don't think it's boring, vijita. i'm glad J apologized, explained himself and gave you a big hug instead of the talk he wanted to have. that stinks J had you upset all day over the talk and i agree, totally not cool on you being so nervous and scared all day, but i am glad you guys are back to awesome and it was a happy ending.

sometimes i get all worked up over stuff when my spouse isn't around and it simmers all day until it boils over. i have a really bad habit of redirecting my anger and most of the time allowing some space and time allows the anger to diffuse, or i begin to see that i'm redirecting my feelings. a lot of times i see myself doing what J did and this makes me see how dan probably feels being on the other end when i react that way. sheds a lot of light onto things for me - thank you for sharing.


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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Sun Jan 26, 2014 6:53 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
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I woke up feeling sad and nostalgic today for the early days in our relationship. It seemed like we could go anywhere we wanted and do anything, and we did so much stuff together, it was a whirlwind. I told him I was missing those times before we moved to MI, bought a house, and everything that goes with that, feeling stuck here.

He reminded me that we still can go anywhere and be anything. I cried.


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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
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Fee and Strawberry rock, I'm bumming for y'all.

And in my world, I've gone to 2 couples therapy sessions with the hubs, it's been very insightful. I'm on a roller coaster ride but feeling strong. Sad sometimes, but strong enough.

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 Post subject: Re: Relationship advice, decisions, smiles or tears
PostPosted: Mon Jan 27, 2014 5:31 am 
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so, it's been almost a month that we're back, and things are still going well. it's been a real relief, and once school starts and things get back to normal i think things will get even better.
and i have to attach a terrible photo that makes me laugh just thinking about it- we're in the bloody jungle and Baggy insists that we can't take a selfie, she has to take the picture for us, and we're talking out of the corners of our mouths about the weeping toucans, leopards, snakes and tarantulas that are creeping up behind her to beg her to STOP TALKING ABOUT shiitake SHE SAW ON TUMBLR FOR HALF A SECOND, and we all laugh so hard that we screw up all the photos, and nearly peas ourselves laughing. You know, the way you do when it's time to take a pic (this is why I get a new photo of us about once every two years)
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