thanks! I did like the stuff from Knits by Nat, but I can't decide.
http://www.etsy.com/listing/39254237/wine-mist-heather-lace-scarf this one because he will prefer the color
or
http://www.etsy.com/listing/54962166/amber-cables-and-lace-scarf-with-loop this one because even though he prefers purples and pinks he is scared of getting hate crimed and therefor might not wear the other one?
Edit to say, also, I like the cable pattern in the amber one. But I'm just unsure how he feels about amber.