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erynne936
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 4:29 pm |
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Joined: Thu Nov 11, 2010 10:51 am Posts: 856 Location: Warwick, RI
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My heart is with you and with Sable. Sending you love and light. She knows you love her. <3 <3 <3
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Tofulish
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 5:26 pm |
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Oh RC, I was so sorry to read this, and i know how devastated you must be. I just wanted to say that you are the most wonderful and loving dogmama. Go in peace sweet Sable.
_________________ But on a cold winter night, when the wind whispers through the trees and a bright, white moon hangs heavy in the air, you might hear a sad cry like someone thinking he knows what's best for you, and that'll be the white man a-passin' you by. just mumbles
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 5:54 pm |
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 6:18 pm |
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_________________ Did you notice the slight feeling of panic at the words "Chicken Basin Street"? Like someone was walking over your grave? Try not to remember. We must never remember. - mumbles Is this about devilberries and nazifruit again? - footface
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 6:48 pm |
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I'm so sorry about Sable. It's such a tough decision to make when our animal friends suffer and there's nothing doctors can do.
_________________ Again, you are all brilliant and sexy. And I am lavender-laden and secure in my masculinity. - Sir Brancis Facon
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:00 pm |
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I'm so sorry, lots of love to you and Sable. I was only faced with the "choice" of putting a dog down once, but she ended up "deciding" for us by passing away the night before we would have put her down. I wish you had more support IRL, but know that all of your ppk friends are behind you.
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Vantine
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:13 pm |
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| Heart of Vegan Marshmallow |
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I'm so sorry RC. Sable is lucky to have someone like you for a mom.
_________________ A whole lot of access and privilege goes into being sanctimonious pricks J-Dub Dessert is currently a big bowl of sanctimonious, passive aggressive vegan enduced boak. Fezza You people are way less funny than Pandacookie. Sucks to be you.-interrobang?!
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fatcat
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:25 pm |
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I'm so sorry. I'm sure Sable knows how much you love her and that you made the best decision for her.
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quagga
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:28 pm |
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My thoughts and love to Sable and you and your family. You will all have a Sable-shaped hole in your heart forever, but try hard to fill that hole with good memories. Feel and honor the grief, of course, but remember all the love Sable had for you.
Euthanasia, saying goodbye, is the hardest, bravest thing we do as loving guardians for our companions. It is the final responsibility we bear, and you are bearing it well. You were lucky to have each other.
Hugs.
Breathe.
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:29 pm |
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I'm so sorry rc, my thoughts are with you and your brave Sable.
_________________ "Vegan to me means Oreos for breakfast." -Poopiebitch "THE POWER OF NOOCH COMPELS YOU" -Gulliver
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celyn
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:30 pm |
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Sending love. I'm so sorry.
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 7:56 pm |
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Oh, RC, I'm in tears right now, I'm so sorry that you have to make this decision for Sable. So much love and so many hugs for you. Rest in peace Sable
_________________ "I think I am going to turn into a chickpea." ~Dakini Love is like a pineapple, sweet and undefinable ~ Piet Hein
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:01 pm |
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I'm so sorry you are both suffering like this. Thinking of you a lot. xo kittee
_________________ Cake Maker to the Stars pakupaku XGFX: Vegan Gluten-Free Stuff "Stupid society. I'm gonna go put on bikini kill."~Susie Tofu Monster "Kittee is wise. Listen to Kittee."~Aruna--> the PPKr currently known as mumbaikar
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raspberrycomplaint
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:06 pm |
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| Remembers When Veganism Was Cool |
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Thank you all. I really do appreciate all your kind thoughts. I told Sable so many people loved her even though they never met her. It was so so difficult, but it was time. She couldn't even hold her head up anymore. I was there twice today and there was a marked deterioration between when we left the hospital at 3 and when we came back at around 6:15. I got to say goodbye to her and tell her how much I loved her and sing to her a little. The actual passing was so swift and peaceful. The vet I liked best there was the one who did it and I was glad for that. She was very kind and even teared up a little herself. I stayed with Sable for a little while after she had passed, talking with my mom about all the memories of her. I miss her more than words can say and it is so hard to look at her bed and toys and know she isn't coming back. But at least she is not sick anymore.
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seitanicverses
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:10 pm |
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Oh, raspberries, I keep tearing up over this. I feel so terrible for you. It sucks that she wasn't well enough to enjoy her last days with you. It sucks that you had to spend so much money and lose the battle. I was looking at pictures of Sable in our animal friends thread and a floofier more well-loved girl there could not be. Sable on the shore looking contemplatively out on the water, her vacations, her Halloween costumes. Playdates! Friends! So much doggy-smiling. So much love, the love shines through every shot. She had a wonderful, wonderful life and you gave her that. No matter how much it hurts, you created all this beauty and wonder for her and gave her a full, rich life that was all love and kindness and no pet could ask for more. <3 <3 <3...
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erynne936
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:22 pm |
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So glad you got to be there with Sable and sing to her, and that the vet you liked could be there for you. I will remember Sable's birthday pictures and her eating her cake! Your story has really hit me extra hard because I have a Sheltie and that little face in your icon looks so much like him! If it means anything, being "with you" as you have gone through all this has been a reminder to me to cherish every precious moment with my dogs, to give them extra hugs and love, to overlook all the barking, and to remind myself to continue to appreciate them as many moments as we have together. In a way I hope this honors Sable's memory. <3
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:45 pm |
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I'm crying. I'm so so sorry for your loss. She will be deeply missed, and please take care of yourself. It's ok to cry all you want.
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celyn
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:49 pm |
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Donation made to your shelter in Sable's name. <3
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Pinko
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:52 pm |
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I've been crying on and off all day thinking of you guys. I'm so so sorry this happened, RC. But I'm so happy Sable had you and you had her. And that we all got the chance to know and love her, too, through your pictures and stories. You're in my heart tonight.
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raspberrycomplaint
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:57 pm |
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seitanicverses wrote: Sable on the shore looking contemplatively out on the water I love that one...  I'm really happy that I took her on vacations and celebrated her birthday and things like that. I so wish I had more time to spend with her, but I'm thankful I have almost 11 years of memories (and photos, and video) of her. I bought a scrapbook and I am going to ask all my friends and coworkers and Sable's physical therapists and anyone who loved her to write down a memory of her in the book. I know that this isn't something I need to think about right now, but I keep wondering if I'll get another dog. I haven't been without a dog since I was 6 years old and I feel bereft without one. But the thought of another dog sleeping in Sable's crate or playing with her toys feels really wrong to me. I know I have a lot of time to think about it though.
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raspberrycomplaint
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 8:58 pm |
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celyn wrote: Donation made to your shelter in Sable's name. <3 Thank you. That's very sweet.
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Vantine
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 9:09 pm |
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raspberrycomplaint wrote: seitanicverses wrote: Sable on the shore looking contemplatively out on the water I love that one...  I'm really happy that I took her on vacations and celebrated her birthday and things like that. I so wish I had more time to spend with her, but I'm thankful I have almost 11 years of memories (and photos, and video) of her. I bought a scrapbook and I am going to ask all my friends and coworkers and Sable's physical therapists and anyone who loved her to write down a memory of her in the book. I know that this isn't something I need to think about right now, but I keep wondering if I'll get another dog. I haven't been without a dog since I was 6 years old and I feel bereft without one. But the thought of another dog sleeping in Sable's crate or playing with her toys feels really wrong to me. I know I have a lot of time to think about it though. I think you will know when the right dog comes along.
_________________ A whole lot of access and privilege goes into being sanctimonious pricks J-Dub Dessert is currently a big bowl of sanctimonious, passive aggressive vegan enduced boak. Fezza You people are way less funny than Pandacookie. Sucks to be you.-interrobang?!
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 9:22 pm |
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I'm so sorry, RC. I'm glad you had each other. She sounds like she was a wonderful friend. Thinking of you.
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 10:03 pm |
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I've been checking this thread every day, and I'm so sorry that this happened. From everything you've written, she was clearly very lucky to have you.
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Post subject: Re: I had to leave my dog at the emergency vet Posted: Sun Sep 09, 2012 10:14 pm |
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