online dating (how r u 2day qt?)

Erika Soyf*cker · **Posted:** Thu Sep 06, 2012 9:28 pm

Also:

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You had me at casual sex. A bit of a drive for me, but one I would take.

Just because I will have casual sex does not mean I will have it with anyone willing to make "a bit of a drive."

baps · **Posted:** Fri Sep 07, 2012 6:45 am

I'm chatting to someone on OKC (well email now) who actually seems ok. I am surprised by this considering the messages I usually get.

lillianp · **Posted:** Fri Sep 07, 2012 7:48 am

Erika Soyf*cker wrote:

Just.... wow.

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I am your fitness instructor. We meet at a public place and do some aerobic exercises together. As I am showing you some moves, I am touching you near your intimate parts not making it very obvious and you are enjoying it. But we try to resist it because we are in public. After some time of sweating, I drop you at home or invite you to my place so that we can have a rest. Then when we are at home, you are in the shower and ask me to rub your back. I accept gladly and you start undressing me, caressing my fit body and other untouched places. You can feel me getting hard and invite me into the shower. After washing each other, we move to the bedroom and have kinky, naughty and sweaty streching. Then I say I cannot have this personal training with you any longer because it is not professional. I leave (or you leave) the appartment and we don't see each other anymore.

Let me know if this interests you.

You must be super special! (well, really you are, but he's a creep)

Anek · **Posted:** Fri Sep 07, 2012 8:43 am

After dinner last night with kinky guy we went to a bar and had a "serious" conversation: he asked how do I see this progressing, what we want to do, and basically agreed that neither is looking for just casual sex but we're both looking for something a little longer without the committment of a long term monogamous relationship. So we are going to try this open relationship and have fun.
He's going on vacation for two weeks now and said when he's back I should meet his girlfriend, which will be an interesting experience! This is all new for me so sometimes I just don't know what I should be thinking/feeling, just go with the flow...
Anyway, positive news!

And tonight I'm seeing the other open relationship guy. Serious conversation #2?

papercuts · **Posted:** Sat Sep 08, 2012 6:57 am

Sooo I have a music-listening "party" for two with a lady from okcupid tomorrow. She's in a non-monogamous relationship, so I dunno if it will go anywhere, or just turn into a stellar friendship, but I'm excited. :)

kilgore trout · **Posted:** Sat Sep 08, 2012 10:57 am

Erika Soyf*cker wrote:

Just.... wow.

Quote:

I am your fitness instructor. We meet at a public place and do some aerobic exercises together. As I am showing you some moves, I am touching you near your intimate parts not making it very obvious and you are enjoying it. But we try to resist it because we are in public. After some time of sweating, I drop you at home or invite you to my place so that we can have a rest. Then when we are at home, you are in the shower and ask me to rub your back. I accept gladly and you start undressing me, caressing my fit body and other untouched places. You can feel me getting hard and invite me into the shower. After washing each other, we move to the bedroom and have kinky, naughty and sweaty streching. Then I say I cannot have this personal training with you any longer because it is not professional. I leave (or you leave) the appartment and we don't see each other anymore.

Let me know if this interests you.

Oh my word. What a winner.

Mars · **Posted:** Sat Sep 08, 2012 11:17 am

Erika Soyf*cker wrote:

Just.... wow.

Quote:

I am your fitness instructor. We meet at a public place and do some aerobic exercises together. As I am showing you some moves, I am touching you near your intimate parts not making it very obvious and you are enjoying it. But we try to resist it because we are in public. After some time of sweating, I drop you at home or invite you to my place so that we can have a rest. Then when we are at home, you are in the shower and ask me to rub your back. I accept gladly and you start undressing me, caressing my fit body and other untouched places. You can feel me getting hard and invite me into the shower. After washing each other, we move to the bedroom and have kinky, naughty and sweaty streching. Then I say I cannot have this personal training with you any longer because it is not professional. I leave (or you leave) the appartment and we don't see each other anymore.

Let me know if this interests you.

I'm actually pretty aroused after reading this.

Dandelion · **Posted:** Sat Sep 08, 2012 12:06 pm

Anek wrote:

After dinner last night with kinky guy we went to a bar and had a "serious" conversation: he asked how do I see this progressing, what we want to do, and basically agreed that neither is looking for just casual sex but we're both looking for something a little longer without the committment of a long term monogamous relationship. So we are going to try this open relationship and have fun.
He's going on vacation for two weeks now and said when he's back I should meet his girlfriend, which will be an interesting experience! This is all new for me so sometimes I just don't know what I should be thinking/feeling, just go with the flow...
Anyway, positive news!

And tonight I'm seeing the other open relationship guy. Serious conversation #2?

Your updates always make me smile! I miss being in these types of situations and even though they probably aren't practical for me anymore(not because there is anything wrong with them, or even because I wouldn't want to, just for annoying reasons), I like hearing about them when they're working out and everyone is happy.
So yay! I'm glad everything is working out and fun and stuff!

Arisaig · **Posted:** Mon Sep 10, 2012 9:46 am

Apparently I don't even need to go on a dating site. Here is a message I got on Facebook:

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How are you? I came across your profile when I am looking for my friend. I really want to be your friend so that we can share idea of different culture and get to know our self better. You have special beauty. What is the secret? Please if you feel it’s a good idea respond to my message.

Maybe he sent it to everyone and maybe "he" is really a grandma from Nebraska, but I am still going to cherish the fact that a man from Venice appreciates my "special beauty".

Anek · **Posted:** Wed Sep 12, 2012 3:24 pm

Not sure if this still counts as online dating since we've been going out for more than a month now, but yesterday I met open relationship guy's wife, and the two cats that belong to the girlfriend of the kinky guy, that are being taken care of by open relationship guy and his wife while kinky guy and girlfriend are on vacation. Confusing? In any case, everyone was lovely.

I'm now chatting with a couple of other people who sound interesting, but are quite far away. Let's see how these develop...

Mars · **Posted:** Wed Sep 12, 2012 3:37 pm

Meeting up with a guy from OKC in a week for beers, and this guy seems a lot more sexual than any other person I've met through online. I'm not very attracted to him at all based on photos, but I like his cantor, and seems like might be a good fit for me as a sexy-friend. We'll see.

Erika Soyf*cker · **Posted:** Wed Sep 12, 2012 7:21 pm

I had my heart ground into paste under someone's heel on Monday... so I'm going on a first date with someone new tonight! Onwards and upwards. Soon I'll forget ol' what's-his-face!

chouettes crêpes · **Posted:** Wed Sep 12, 2012 10:54 pm

i'm so sorry to hear that erika!

mars:
i went out with someone from OKC once for the same reasons as you're going out with this guy and it was really underwhelming, if you catch my drift. i mean, we probably weren't a good match to begin with. i probably shouldn't've said anything... hope your date goes well!

Mars · **Posted:** Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:18 am

Haha, it's okay. I'm prepared to be uderwhelmed. I just want more dating/sexual experiences, so it's good either way.

baps · **Posted:** Thu Sep 13, 2012 4:00 am

I had a date with someone from OKC last night. He was lovely and we got on really well but I didn't feel any spark of romantic attraction at all. Just had to send the letting him down gently email and I feel pretty crappy about it. I'm hoping that he'll want to stay friends, as he really is a nice guy.

Why do I never like the ones who like me? I think I'm fighting a losing battle with this dating stuff.

Paloma · **Joined:** Wed Jan 18, 2012 4:25 am **Posts:** 1030

For some reason, I got caught up dating two people at the same time. It's hella confusing.

Mars · **Posted:** Thu Sep 13, 2012 10:55 am

Just don't mess up their names!

GymClassZero · **Posted:** Thu Sep 13, 2012 6:14 pm

Auuugh the cute, nice guy I was messaging has stopped completely I think. Booo.

Erika Soyf*cker · **Posted:** Fri Sep 14, 2012 4:47 pm

My date went really well! He sent me the most adorable picture he'd drawn of the little susuwatari (coal sprites) from Miyazaki films and I was all *swoon*.

And then I immediately got invited over to my very-occasional-thang's house that afternoon and got just what I needed.

The plan to forget ol' what's-his-face is going very well indeed!

Tofulish · **Posted:** Fri Sep 14, 2012 5:02 pm

Mars wrote:

Just don't mess up their names!

I once dated 3 guys named Mike. You'd think it would be easier to manage, because all you had to remember was Mike. But really every call became a guessing game of which Mike it was.

good times.

Yay for swooning Erika! You're the best <3!

strawberryrock · **Joined:** Sun Oct 24, 2010 6:15 pm **Posts:** 1695

Should I go on a date with someone who says she's extremely opposed to the soy industry?

What if she also says her fashion sense is inspired by Chuck Bass? This is hard.

strawberryrock · **Joined:** Sun Oct 24, 2010 6:15 pm **Posts:** 1695

What if she says she's looking for someone whose wild partying days are behind them? Here's the thing: I want to date someone whose wild partying days are behind them too. But not because I want my wild partying days to be behind me. I just have a boner for 30-something dykes with stable jobs who find my life and my crazy friends endearing but will also cook dinner with me and drink tea and like. Garden. Or something. (I don't garden I'm just saying my ideal girlfriend would and then she would teach me.)

chouettes crêpes · **Posted:** Fri Sep 14, 2012 8:57 pm

hey, at least you haven't dated her ex, right?

Mars · **Posted:** Fri Sep 14, 2012 10:15 pm

strawberryrock wrote:

What if she says she's looking for someone whose wild partying days are behind them? Here's the thing: I want to date someone whose wild partying days are behind them too. But not because I want my wild partying days to be behind me. I just have a boner for 30-something dykes with stable jobs who find my life and my crazy friends endearing but will also cook dinner with me and drink tea and like. Garden. Or something. (I don't garden I'm just saying my ideal girlfriend would and then she would teach me.)

OMG I totally know someone like this. Heh, I should hook y'alls up! She also has a slight southern accent. Sadly I'm not close enough with her to really breach that subject methinks.

ScooterDiva · **Joined:** Wed Oct 20, 2010 1:46 pm **Posts:** 2053

Just got stood up for a first date. We'd been texting back and forth all week w/plans to meet tonight after I got off work. Texted him tonight, he finally texts back 90 min later. Asked if we were still on. No reply. So told him I was going to bed. Just be honest, dude. No one likes a flake.

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