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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 12:14 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 1:14 pm 
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Dating is confusing.

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 1:25 pm 
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Paloma wrote:
Dating is confusing.


I hear ya there.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 1:33 pm 
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Cute guy with glasses, please keep talking to me. *fingers crossed*


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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Tue Sep 18, 2012 3:22 pm 
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3 hours of sexin/cuddle time = 6 combined orgasms...and then we ate vegan cupcakes. Dating rules

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Yay Adam Crisis! And hurrah for consecutive coming and cupcakes :) Those are two great tastes that don't really taste good together (despite my subnick).

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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Id try a sweet and sour cream tang cupcake...I mean, as long as its my own cream tang

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Adam Crisis wrote:
3 hours of sexin/cuddle time = 6 combined orgasms...and then we ate vegan cupcakes. Dating rules


You're better at this dating thing than me.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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Wow, go you, Adam! I'm going on my date with OKC guy tonight, I have high hopes... I probably shouldn't given my past failed attempts at getting laid. Oh well.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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Paloma wrote:
Adam Crisis wrote:
3 hours of sexin/cuddle time = 6 combined orgasms...and then we ate vegan cupcakes. Dating rules


You're better at this dating thing than me.


its easy, all in 4 easy steps

1. Cut out the typical dating games
2. Make your intentions clear
3. Profit
4. Vegan cupcakes

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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Adam Crisis wrote:
Paloma wrote:
Adam Crisis wrote:
3 hours of sexin/cuddle time = 6 combined orgasms...and then we ate vegan cupcakes. Dating rules


You're better at this dating thing than me.


its easy, all in 4 easy steps

1. Cut out the typical dating games
2. Make your intentions clear
3. Profit
4. Vegan cupcakes


Ha! I wish it were that simple!

Nice going Mr Crisis, sounds like a pretty perfect night!


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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 6:28 am 
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That sounds excellent fezza! Good luck!


I had a really pleasant evening with the married couple. First the guy and I cooked and ate dinner, then the wife arrived and we had tea and chocolate and chatting and computer time and board games. I can see a potential friendship there (we share affection for the same guy, for knitting, for striped stockings, and diva cups).

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 10:35 am 
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I've remember what I hate about Match - winks! Winks are stupid and pointless, just email. And what I hate more is when a guy winks so I email them if they're ok because winking back is pointless and then they never reply! Why wink in the first place? It's stupid.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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No! I liked winks. I think it just means "I'd like to email you but I don't want to bug you if you're not interested." And a wink back means "Go ahead and email." Biker boy and I started with a wink and a wink back!

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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As a married mom who has spent her morning collecting semi-chewed fruit detritus off the carpet and convincing the baby not to bite the cats or the dog, I am very slightly envious of all of you right now with your sexy foreign films, sexy cupcakes and sexy bikerboywinkiewinkietimes.

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:41 pm 
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No! I liked winks. I think it just means "I'd like to email you but I don't want to bug you if you're not interested." And a wink back means "Go ahead and email." Biker boy and I started with a wink and a wink back!

I had a similar experience! My love winked at me just to see if I was at all interested since we are very different (especially in the limited information given on a Match profile); he said he wasn't sure a little vegan lawyer lady would be interested in someone like himself...obviously wrong! And now we live together and have a lovely life in general over 9 months later

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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This made me think of fezza's dating experiences....

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 6:07 pm 
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Ooohh, don't be jealous. I've called it all off. Picked him up just after 6pm and he was asking to be left home by 8.30. He was exhausted, and so was I, but I would never have called this date off two hours in. This is a guy who had to call two other dates off due to things with his kids (fair enough), refused to go on our arranged date after the textgate debacle, started conversation with me on Sunday evening only to ignore me the rest of the evening.. after I asked him what night he was free this week.. he was online a couple of times so was just not replying, for whatever reason. He asked to be left home, not could we go back to his after the cinema instead of mine. He then read my disappointment as "icy" and reckoned I wouldn't come in so that was his reason for not asking when we got to his.

Yes, it's all a bit much and complicated isn't it, it's only a drop in the ocean. The guy seems to really like me, I liked him, but his blowing hot and cold and peas poor communication skills are just too much hard work. Every time there's a mix up he thinks the worst of me then slopes or flounces off, rather than discuss it rationally. I feel bad calling it off, he has a history of depression, I've a feeling that might be what's causing his erratic behavior atm. But, I have a two month old niece undergoing surgery in the morning, my finances are under threat atm and I think I'm on the verge of being diagnosed with arthritis in my knees and wrists (on top of it being diagnosed in my neck), I shouldn't have to deal with being made feel I'm not worth much effort on top of things.


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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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I am sorry fezza. I think you're doing the right thing, fwiw, even if he is dealing with depression. I think its so hard when the one person who is supposed to care about you doesn't treat you like they do.

You went to some effort to plan a nice first date, so to have someone cancel in a pretty unkind way just blows. And if someone can't be kind to you, I say let them go fork themselves someplace else.

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Thanks T'lish <3

He's a nice guy and I know he's going to be really upset (I'm disappointed things couldn't work out, I'll miss him), but I also know his first reaction will be "I knew this wouldn't work, it always goes wrong for me", rather than "f'ck, I really should have though about how that would make her feel". He's been waiting for things to go wrong, but at the same time, not putting much effort into making them go right. You can't win with someone in that mindset.


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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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It sounds like you're doing the right thing, Fezza. It shouldn't be such hard work so early on!

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Thanks baps, it really shouldn't should it. Such a waste though, we did get on very well and the chemistry was great. There's just something in him that seems to stop him seeing things from any point of view but his own.


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That's too bad, fezza. I hope you're not taking it badly or on yourself. It's his problem and you're awesome.

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Thanks Anek, baby niece should be in surgery by now, I have more important worries this morning.


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Sending oodles of good thoughts for baby niece's surgery. I hope it goes well and she has a quick and complete recovery.

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