I hope nobody minds if I put a shameless promotion here in case there are any San Diego lurkers.
I'm trying to get a SD playgroup started for veg*n kids/babies and our first meetup is tomorrow!
http://www.meetup.com/San-Diego-Vegan-Parents-Group/I'm hoping to meet some other vegan parents and babies as well as trying to create a way for toddlers to be toddlers without having to constantly police food or worry about my kid being left out.