Post Punk Kitchen Forum

I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad, fezza. And your guy sounds lovely. Hugs.

I'm also sorry to hear about your Dad, Fezza. <3

Thanks guys! xx

I deleted my POF account earlier, freeeeeeeeeeeedom!

God, I hope he doesn't dump me! I sent him off this morning with a flask full of the best spicy lentil soup I have ever tasted, never mind made, he'd be craaaaaaaaaazy to dump me after that ;)

So, on a whim I switched my location on OKC to where I am moving in a couple of weeks (Montana). I think maybe I don't hate this after all...

If you send me two messages and think you're getting my number, you're gonna have a bad time. Especially if you're 1. not in my state, 2. a homophobe (people, seriously, it says bi right on my profile, I'm not dating someone who thinks if I were to be with a girl we shouldn't raise children), and 3. not at all interested in anything I'm interested in but pretending to be (which is kinda cool but not this time).

Fezza! I'm sorry to hear about your dad :( At least you maybe found a decent guy to help life your spirits with snuggling.

3 weeks w/my guy. He's being awesome but today my green-eyed monster reared its ugly head. I got to meet his BFF, an exotically beautiful and exceptionally smart girl who he's been friends w/for 6 years. I dropped him off after spending all night & all of the afternoon w/him today so he could go hang out w/her. I totally understand the importance of being with your friends and not having the person you're dating monopolize all of your time, but I can't help but compare myself to her & feel like the ugliest frumpiest person ever. It's not a good feeling.

Ugh, this has happened to me too.

Little rant: there's a guy on OKC who will message me every 3-4 weeks. At first I messaged back, but he'd not respond until like a month later when he'd say "Sorry I never got back to you, I was dealing with some stuff, blahblah," and sometimes a complaint about another OKC girl. After like the third time it got old so I stopped responding, then like a week ago he started asking to hang out. 1: the weird flakiness-persistence combo and shit-talking about other women makes me pretty uncomfortable, and 2: he lives like an hour and a half away anyway. I (politely) told him no, but I have a feeling I'm going to have to block him. I hate how I've been socialized to feel bad about things like this.

If he's been seeing you for three weeks and even introducing you to his BFF, I bet he thinks you're beautiful and smart too!

+1 yummy

Also, you never know what people do and do not find attractive. I have had plenty of friends who might be considered super forkin' babes, but yet wasn't really attracted to them; and found myself pining/lusting after people not many people would agree with me that they were sexy.

So this guy I got a number from and will meet with on wednesday, he told me his real name... It's the same name as the one I used for years as a pseudonym. Wiieeeeeerrd.

Anyhow, I'm looking forward, he seems like he could be a good date for me.

Thanks SR & Mars. He reassured me without me having said anything.

Good luck on your date, Mars!

I had a little jealously moment too ScooterDiva, and I don't even know what she looks like, it was just enough that he was spending one of his few days off with another woman. It did make me laugh though, because I'm not used to feeling jealous, it's not my nature. I soon flipped it round to being pleased that he was getting a well deserved afternoon out.

I have to say, dating a fellow photographer and veggie is an outstanding combination. He's loving all the food I share with him and regularly sends me photos of his day. We get to chat, and chat, and chaaaaaat equipment and techniques and genuinely love each other's work.

Sunday was spent wandering the market, then coffee & vegan cake in a lovely coffee shop and home to prepare and cook dinner together. It took us about 3 hours to do, because we kept stopping to snuggle every time we tried to pass each other in the kitchen. We had big talks, feelings were declared on both sides and a joint hope for foreverness was expressed. It's all pretty sudden, but very even on both sides, so we're just going to keep on doing our do and see where it goes. It's looking promising atm.

Oh my Fezza! That is so awesome! Freals, its taken tooooooo long.

Oh fezza! I'm so happy for you!

Thanks guys, he's an absolute sweetheart and makes me stupidly happy.
One of the lovely things about it s that I knew how he felt about me without him having to say, it's always there when he looks at me, even when we're out and about doing regular things together. We bumped into a friend & a girl I didn't know on Sunday and the girl said to my friend that he looked like he was really into me. It's nice when even strangers can tell!

That's great fezza! Yay!!! You deserve a good guy!

fezzaaaa! that's so cute and exciting :D

Damn, Fezza. That's the best thing thing about my day right there. I love happy stories from people!

Yay fezza! That's so sweet.

Squee! Fezza, I am so damn happy that you are finally getting what you so very deserve! That's fantastic!

Still having nice chats with the too-far-away boy. I did get a message from a new person today, though...

Oooooh so this really adorable guy messaged me and we've messaged back and forth a short while, and then I went online tonight and he IM'd me! And we've been chatting all night and daaamn, he's so adorable and seems into me. Wut!

Thank you guys <3!

Starting to feel like I'm very low priority w/my guy. We were supposed to get together last night but he ended up going to a friends party. As I said in another post, I don't ever want to be the girl that comes between a guy and his friends, but when I asked if I could pick him up around 11 today (we're supposed to get/decorate a tree, go to a parade, and then a housewarming party), he told me he might not be home by then. I'm proud of him for making smart choices like not drinking and driving, I'm just frustrated because I see him so little. He only lives 15 min away but I feel like I only see him once a week. And who knows what will happen today now that he doesn't know when he'll be home. I was really looking forward to spending the day with him.