Just because I noticed a few others are grieving this season..
Every year on December 9th, the Compassionate Friends has a worldwide candle lighting service in the memory of all children who have passed away. It doesn't matter if it was this year or decades ago. You can go to a local service or do it in your own home. It does not matter what religion, nationality, or such you are. It's about the children who have passed.
I know vegan candles can be hard to find for some, but it's a comforting gesture for many. We will be lighting one for our daughter at home.
If you would like more information:http://www.compassionatefriends.org/new ... hting.aspx