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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 12:53 pm 
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Oh no Kilgore! You'll get through it!

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i'm sorry to hear that Kilgore :( you are awesome and i'm sure you'll find many more awesome people to date.

my date w/ counselor boy was cancelled last-minute this week because of some changed travel plans... i was pretty bummed but we've been texting some and maybe we'll skype later today if our schedules line up. BUT he asked me via text today about the possibility of being more serious and i thought, "we've only been on two dates!!" i told him that i appreciated the communication, but that i didn't feel comfortable talking about that via text message.

went out with vegan boy last night and that was really fun. we went out to an all-vegan place, then went back to his to watch a movie... and stuff...

i like both of these men a whole lot, but i want the chance to get to know each of them a little more before settling down with either one. i do think i'll choose eventually and that'll be rough, but i want to give myself a chance to actually give it some time, you know? i've never been in this position before, so i guess it being very new to me is doubly hard.


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I got a message from a guy last weekend and we have been talking several times every day, via email. We haven't exchanged numbers (I haaaaate talking on the phone), but we have plans to meet up this week for coffee! I'm trying to not get too excited about it before we actually meet, because it's totally possible that there will be no chemistry in-person. BUT, I haven't been this excited about an okcupid guy in a long time. And I have definitely never been this excited about an okcupid guy who actually lives in my city. EEK!

I'm meeting this guy tomorrow! I'm so nervous! Quick! Talk me down from a panic attack!
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Its going to be fun! Pippi and Nora and the PPK want to hear all about it :)

Sending good thoughts takecare! You're lovely <3

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 6:47 am 
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I'm so sorry kilgore! xxx


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PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 10:02 am 
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Thanks guys. <3

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 10:34 am 
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Its going to be fun! Pippi and Nora and the PPK want to hear all about it :)

Sending good thoughts takecare! You're lovely <3

This is exactly the pep-talk I needed! I'm meeting him in an hour!
Now if I can manage to not barf up my breakfast on the first date it would be awesome...

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It happened.
It was awesome.
He's a dreamboat.
*swoon*

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I just got a message saying 'hello tubby'. My response was goodbye tosser. He messaged again before I managed to block his rude asparagus saying bye tubbs.

Way to put me in a shitty mood douchebag!!

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 2:14 pm 
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baps, that sucks! What a dickwad!
takecare: yayyyyyyy for swooning!

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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takecare: yayyyyyyy for swooning!

I know! I'm still waiting for mutualness to be confirmed. But I think the swooning is mutual! Yay!

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Hmm... after I got home from my date today I sent the boy an email that said "I liked that. A lot." and he just responded with "Glad I got to meet you in person. Lets talk soon."

Not exactly the enthusiasm I was looking for. He seemed engaged in our conversation when we were hanging out, and it didn't seem like he thought I was hideous. I am most likely reading too much into it, but now I am wondering if he is totally not interested. And I'm turning to the PPK for decoding instead of just asking him.

What's up?!

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
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takecare wrote:
Hmm... after I got home from my date today I sent the boy an email that said "I liked that. A lot." and he just responded with "Glad I got to meet you in person. Lets talk soon."

Not exactly the enthusiasm I was looking for. He seemed engaged in our conversation when we were hanging out, and it didn't seem like he thought I was hideous. I am most likely reading too much into it, but now I am wondering if he is totally not interested. And I'm turning to the PPK for decoding instead of just asking him.

What's up?!


I think it is SO hard to actually tell and you just have to see if he wants to see you again and see what happens. He might be trying to play it cool, he might not have been sure what to say, he might not be that into it, there's no real way to tell yet, Which sucks!

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 Post subject: Re: online dating (how r u 2day qt?)
PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 9:45 pm 
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that's how I'd probably reply to something I deeply, sincerely enjoyed - the experience spoke for itself, so he doesn't have to ramble about it.. I'd say you're fine :)

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that's how I'd probably reply to something I deeply, sincerely enjoyed - the experience spoke for itself, so he doesn't have to ramble about it.. I'd say you're fine :)


That's good to know. Thanks! :)

*hoping for the best*

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*hoping for the breast*

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I'm more hoping that he is hoping for the breast, actually...

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*hoping for the kitten*

Better?

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*hoping for winter cuddles* ?

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Hehe pssshaw, fine! I was just trying to help!

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This boy is so seriously nerdy and cute! I want him to be my boyfriiiiiiend.

(on an unrelated note: my cat is snoring right now and it's the BEST!!)

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(on an unrelated note: my cat is snoring right now and it's the BEST!!)


I have replaced all my dating with cat snoring and so far, I'm doing pretty fine. Cat snoring is ace.

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The allegedly poly girl now wants to be in a monogamous relationship with me and I'm like, huh, well I've got a date Thursday, so I dunno. Fun times!

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^^ that's good, right?

i've decided to break things off w/ vegan boy so i can pursue things more seriously w/ counselor boy.... i'm going to call him once he gets off work today and it's going to feel soooo crappy, but i suppose it's better to get around to it sooner than later. i guess that's the ups and downs of dating, right?


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