online dating (how r u 2day qt?)

kilgore trout · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 10:02 am

Thanks guys. <3

takecare · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 10:34 am

Tofulish wrote:

Its going to be fun! Pippi and Nora and the PPK want to hear all about it :)

Sending good thoughts takecare! You're lovely <3

This is exactly the pep-talk I needed! I'm meeting him in an hour!
Now if I can manage to not barf up my breakfast on the first date it would be awesome...

takecare · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 1:52 pm

It happened.
It was awesome.
He's a dreamboat.
*swoon*

baps · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 2:13 pm

I just got a message saying 'hello tubby'. My response was goodbye tosser. He messaged again before I managed to block his rude asparagus saying bye tubbs.

Way to put me in a shitty mood douchebag!!

Reason #26753764 I hate OKC.

kilgore trout · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 2:14 pm

baps, that sucks! What a dickwad!
takecare: yayyyyyyy for swooning!

takecare · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 3:03 pm

kilgore trout wrote:

takecare: yayyyyyyy for swooning!

I know! I'm still waiting for mutualness to be confirmed. But I think the swooning is mutual! Yay!

takecare · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 9:21 pm

Hmm... after I got home from my date today I sent the boy an email that said "I liked that. A lot." and he just responded with "Glad I got to meet you in person. Lets talk soon."

Not exactly the enthusiasm I was looking for. He seemed engaged in our conversation when we were hanging out, and it didn't seem like he thought I was hideous. I am most likely reading too much into it, but now I am wondering if he is totally not interested. And I'm turning to the PPK for decoding instead of just asking him.

What's up?!

strawberryrock · **Joined:** Sun Oct 24, 2010 6:15 pm **Posts:** 1672

takecare wrote:

Hmm... after I got home from my date today I sent the boy an email that said "I liked that. A lot." and he just responded with "Glad I got to meet you in person. Lets talk soon."

Not exactly the enthusiasm I was looking for. He seemed engaged in our conversation when we were hanging out, and it didn't seem like he thought I was hideous. I am most likely reading too much into it, but now I am wondering if he is totally not interested. And I'm turning to the PPK for decoding instead of just asking him.

What's up?!

I think it is SO hard to actually tell and you just have to see if he wants to see you again and see what happens. He might be trying to play it cool, he might not have been sure what to say, he might not be that into it, there's no real way to tell yet, Which sucks!

joshua · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 9:45 pm

that's how I'd probably reply to something I deeply, sincerely enjoyed - the experience spoke for itself, so he doesn't have to ramble about it.. I'd say you're fine :)

takecare · **Posted:** Sun Dec 23, 2012 9:54 pm

joshua wrote:

that's how I'd probably reply to something I deeply, sincerely enjoyed - the experience spoke for itself, so he doesn't have to ramble about it.. I'd say you're fine :)

That's good to know. Thanks! :)

*hoping for the best*

Mars · **Posted:** Mon Dec 24, 2012 12:40 am

takecare wrote:

*hoping for the breast*

takecare · **Posted:** Mon Dec 24, 2012 12:43 am

I'm more hoping that he is hoping for the breast, actually...

Mars · **Posted:** Mon Dec 24, 2012 12:51 am

takecare wrote:

*hoping for the pussy*

Better?

takecare · **Posted:** Mon Dec 24, 2012 12:56 am

*hoping for winter cuddles* ?

Mars · **Posted:** Mon Dec 24, 2012 12:58 am

Hehe pssshaw, fine! I was just trying to help!

takecare · **Posted:** Mon Dec 24, 2012 1:04 am

takecare · **Posted:** Mon Dec 24, 2012 1:06 am

This boy is so seriously nerdy and cute! I want him to be my boyfriiiiiiend.

(on an unrelated note: my cat is snoring right now and it's the BEST!!)

Paloma · **Joined:** Wed Jan 18, 2012 4:25 am **Posts:** 1027

takecare wrote:

(on an unrelated note: my cat is snoring right now and it's the BEST!!)

I have replaced all my dating with cat snoring and so far, I'm doing pretty fine. Cat snoring is ace.

strawberryrock · **Joined:** Sun Oct 24, 2010 6:15 pm **Posts:** 1672

The allegedly poly girl now wants to be in a monogamous relationship with me and I'm like, huh, well I've got a date Thursday, so I dunno. Fun times!

chouettes crêpes · **Posted:** Mon Dec 24, 2012 2:00 pm

^^ that's good, right?

i've decided to break things off w/ vegan boy so i can pursue things more seriously w/ counselor boy.... i'm going to call him once he gets off work today and it's going to feel soooo crappy, but i suppose it's better to get around to it sooner than later. i guess that's the ups and downs of dating, right?

strawberryrock · **Joined:** Sun Oct 24, 2010 6:15 pm **Posts:** 1672

chouettes crêpes wrote:

^^ that's good, right?

Well I'm sooo not ready to commit to anything yet, but we'll see.

takecare · **Posted:** Tue Dec 25, 2012 11:10 am

UPDATE: I have spent the past 48 hours pretty confused about my date that happened on Sunday. Pre-date, we were sending several novel-length emails to each other every day. So, after I sent him the post-date email saying that I had a good time, it was strange to get a vague 2-sentence response. I let the crickets chirp for another 24 hours, then yesterday I sent him an email that was essentially like "hey, given the switch from novel-like emails to a 2-sentence email, I'm confused about whether you're giving me a "I'm not interested" blow-off if if you're just swamped with that project you told me you'd be busy with. Either way is totally fine, I just want to know whether I should back off or ask you to hang out again."

And I finally got a response this morning saying that he's been swamped with that project, that he liked hanging out with me, and that he'd like to do it again.

YAY! :)

chouettes crêpes · **Posted:** Tue Dec 25, 2012 10:05 pm

yay!! i'm so glad it's turning out well for you, takecare

Erika Soyf*cker · **Posted:** Wed Dec 26, 2012 12:01 am

Christmas greetings, fellow online daters! Just wanted to drop a quick update that the charming, adorable, and utterly amazing guy I met on OKC three months ago is sitting in the living room with my parents enjoying a movie after a huge dinner. When I was first single a year ago I poo-poohed online dating, but I have to thank Jordan Pattern for forcing my hand because wooee. This is nice. :)

granolapocalypse · **Joined:** Tue Feb 08, 2011 9:19 pm **Posts:** 250

Filling out my brand new OKC profile...losing my will to live...
Is this normal?

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