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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Fri Jul 12, 2013 10:19 am 
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I was responding to both the "exploding" and "piece of my mind."
I didn't mean that I would have actually "exploded" at the woman, but that my head would have exploded (in the figurative sense). That said, as someone who has raised three teenagers, I would have been sorely tempted to reiterate the cognitive, developmental issues already raised, and to point out that holding a 15 year old responsible for the choices made by an adult, married man with children of his own is not only illogical but sort of abusive. Then again, if it was at a work function and I didn't want A. an aneurysm or B. to continue what would likely be a fruitless argument that might make my professional environment more complicated/uncomfortable, I might have simply excused myself and headed for the bar.


Apologies for misinterpreting 'exploding'. I didn't mean to put words in your mouth :)


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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Fri Jul 12, 2013 10:25 am 
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Desdemona wrote:
lavawitch wrote:
I was responding to both the "exploding" and "piece of my mind."
I didn't mean that I would have actually "exploded" at the woman, but that my head would have exploded (in the figurative sense). That said, as someone who has raised three teenagers, I would have been sorely tempted to reiterate the cognitive, developmental issues already raised, and to point out that holding a 15 year old responsible for the choices made by an adult, married man with children of his own is not only illogical but sort of abusive. Then again, if it was at a work function and I didn't want A. an aneurysm or B. to continue what would likely be a fruitless argument that might make my professional environment more complicated/uncomfortable, I might have simply excused myself and headed for the bar.


Apologies for misinterpreting 'exploding'. I didn't mean to put words in your mouth :)
No worries. I'm still impressed that you didn't have an aneurysm or (apparently) immediately head for the bar!

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Fri Jul 12, 2013 12:34 pm 
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This reminds me of when I was younger and we were driving through my neighborhood and my family pointed out this one young teenage girl and said, "That's that slut who slept with that cop. She's a disgusting hussy, don't ever go near her." Um, what? So this young teenage girl has complete control over a COP? What? And that makes her a slut? What?

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Fri Jul 12, 2013 1:50 pm 
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Mr. Shankly wrote:
This reminds me of when I was younger and we were driving through my neighborhood and my family pointed out this one young teenage girl and said, "That's that slut who slept with that cop. She's a disgusting hussy, don't ever go near her." Um, what? So this young teenage girl has complete control over a COP? What? And that makes her a slut? What?
Well, obviously. I mean, she was probably out of her house, having a vagina; it's not like the thin blue line had any choice! (Wait, wasn't this a Lifetime movie...actually, isn't it every Lifetime movie??)

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
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I can't claim mine because I really can't remember how many people I have slept with or blown or done other sexy things with, so I can't use the formula at all. Which pretty much makes me a very happy-sexpositive little rabbit. Seriously, who keeps count? I remember the major relationships and some of the great forks, but after 24 years of dating (started at 18) why waste the brainpower keep track of stuff like that?

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 4:37 am 
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Well that is ridiculous. Because... I am damned old and committed and I cannot remember the amount of bowlcuts I have given.

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 4:48 am 
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Uch that whole website is offensive, of course there is no slut calculator for men because only women are sluts.

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 5:50 am 
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Anyone want an Official Slut Certificate? http://www.slutformula.com/

Ugh!


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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 7:48 am 
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Aw it's kinda sad because you know that whoever created that is totally projecting some insecurity. When you're happy about your sex life you don't usually feel the need to blast strangers for having good ones as well.

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
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jojo wrote:
Uch that whole website is offensive, of course there is no slut calculator for men because only women are sluts.


Weird Slut Calculator People wrote:
Because in a nutshell, women are the ones in control when it comes to sex. Women can pick and choose who they sleep with while men aren't nearly as picky and must constantly prove themselves while doing the initiating (ex: typically men approach women, not the other way around). Sluticity corrupts, and absolute sluticity corrupts absolutely.


Jeez! Can't you read?!

Apparently I am a slut. I am going to corrupt with my sluticity!


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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 9:33 am 
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Well, I'm a super slut. That calculator made me realize that I've had sex with everyone I've kissed, minus one. What can I say, I reserve my kisses!

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 9:39 am 
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Oh, I did it wrong. I'm just an average slut.

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 1:27 pm 
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I need clarification before I take this test. Am I supposed to enter the number of blow jobs I've given on a whole or how many men I've given blow jobs to? How do you even keep track of how many blow jobs you give? Did I already take the test with my questions? What kind of kisses count as a slut kiss? Does it matter if the kiss was on the mouth or elsewhere on the body? What happens if I've kissed women?

Ballparked everything and got a, "Atomic Slut. My god you are sluttilicious...or you are forking with the calculator."

Was this website made to be serious or joking? I mean, it's stupid either way but they cannot be serious.

eta: "8) Only likes black guys (but isn't black themselves) (80%)"

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 4:45 pm 
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It's number of partners, not number of blow jobs, and you only count them in the highest category that applies to them.

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
PostPosted: Sun Jul 14, 2013 4:55 pm 
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Shoot! I'm only somewhat easy. I'm not a slut, but I have potential. I think it's because I haven't given many bowlcuts to guys that I didn't fork. I really only rarely see a bowlcut as an end in itself.

Mr. Shankly: I just threw the girls in there, too. I mean, obviously this is very scientific, but I don't think it throws the outcome off too much.

Also, why is this a thing?

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
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You know how I know it's wrong? Said I wasn't slut at all. YOU DON'T KNOW ME!

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I'm way too amused to be offended. At least one part of me is good at sports!

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Does this mean I've been out-slutted? I'm devastated.

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I got "not a slut at all" but that's because I didn't date much except for a couple of long term relationships, then I got married. So I didn't really have a chance to sow my wild slut oats. Damn.

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
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I am only officially recognized as a slut and I had to break the rules to make it less heteronormative.

I guess if I'm complaining about a slut test being heternormative I'm kind of missing the bigger picture, huh?

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
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A girl I know on FB posted this comment.

" Feminists don't like anything and I don't like feminists;) and it is technically about a man freeing a woman from domestication haha. Makes me wanna bop!!!:)"

They were talking about Robin Thicke's "Blurred Lines" and I don't even know if I could be bothered responding. I am tempted to point out that without feminism she wouldn't be allowed to have a job or even voice an opinion in a public forum, but is it really worth it?


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 15, 2013 3:48 pm 
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A girl I know on FB posted this comment.

" Feminists don't like anything and I don't like feminists;) and it is technically about a man freeing a woman from domestication haha. Makes me wanna bop!!!:)"

They were talking about Robin Thicke's "Blurred Lines" and I don't even know if I could be bothered responding. I am tempted to point out that without feminism she wouldn't be allowed to have a job or even voice an opinion in a public forum, but is it really worth it?


Now, mind you, I think there are some legitimate reasons some people don't like feminists, like racism in the movement, classism, cissexist, etc.

Criticizing a womanizing video though? Even Thicke says its meant to be demeaning to women.

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Shy Mox, I could understand if she had voiced a legitimate concern within the feminist movement!

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 Post subject: Re: Who challenges your feminism in your life?
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I don't think I even understand her comment.

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 16, 2013 6:50 am 
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The other day an unpleasant incident lead me to question the "cheek kissing" culture that is the norm in Wallonia (and that often causes problems even for adults) and how brutal and absurd it is, the way kids here are forced to kiss and let others kiss them, instead of learning how to say no and that no one is entitled to touch them if they don't want it :/

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